namamu ku seru

kekasehku Adiba, namamu ku seru...

senyumanmu rahsia, sentiasa diingatanku.

chintaku Adiba, namamu kuseru...

didalam hatiku, disitulah kamu.

sayangku Adiba, namamu ku seru...

sentuhanmu kurindu, hadirlah kamu dlm mimpiku.

kaseh, chinta & sayang...

Adiba, segalanya utk mu.

minggu kerja

how to make the most of your workweek
by Clea Badion

what's the best way to get something done at work? do it on a tuesday.

unfortunately, not every day is tuesday. but you can plan your week to maximize your productivity on this day & the other four. consider the following schedule. while the nature of your job or your own personal preference might prevent you from following it to the letter, giving your workweek at least some structure can prove highly beneficial.

make a plan on monday. when you arrive at work monday morning, chances are you are still transitioning from weekend to workweek. mondays also are frequently filled with meetings & that can decrease the amount of time you have to devote to your regular tasks. since this may not be your most productive day, use it to set the stage for the rest of your week. take some time to develop a to-do list & prioritize your projects for the days ahead.

time to get movin' on tuesday. this day provides you with an opportunity to focus your efforts & establish momentum for the rest of your week. it's also the day to begin projects that will require extended concentration. try to arrange your time so you have few interruptions or meetings (changing gears frequently hurts your productivity). along the same lines, try to cluster projects that require similar resources for even more efficiency.

reassess your week on wednesday. the middle of the week provides an opportunity for you to figure out where you're at & what still needs to be done. think about what you can reasonably accomplish the rest of the week & if any of your planned tasks need to be pushed to the following week due to emergency projects or unforeseen hurdles. make any necessary adjustments so you can get back on track.

think about a break on thursday. use thursday as a day to reward yourself for your hard work throughout the week & to prepare for the final pre-weekend push. you might plan a lunch away from the office or arrange to take a walk with a colleague to re-energize. alternatively, if you've been working long hours, this might be the day you leave the office a bit earlier than normal.

be flexible on friday. as much as possible, try to pad your week's schedule so you have the flexibility on friday to wrap up tasks you weren't able to accomplish during the week. also spend some time organizing your desk, paper files & e-mails. making sure things are neat & in order when you come into the office on monday will help make your weekend less stressful & ensure you don't return to a chaotic mess.

it's natural for activity levels to fluctuate throughout the course of a week. by learning to identify your normal peaks & valleys when it comes to productivity, you can make the most of your workweek, no matter what schedule you follow.

source: Yahoo! HotJobs

bahagia selamanye

utk rujukan bersama..

the 7 steps to happily ever after
by Marjorie Ingall

step 1: find a shared dream for your life together
successful couples quickly develop a mindfulness of us of being coupled. the best partners never lose sight of the fact that they're working together to achieve the same big dreams. when you share a dream, you're a heck of a lot more likely to make that dream come true.

step 2: ignite (& reignite) a sexual connection
in any good relationship, sex is way more than just a physical act. it's crucial for the health of your emotional connection too. it's something only the two of you share, it makes you both feel warm & loved, it draws you back together when you're drifting apart & it's a whole lot of fun...

step 3: choose each other as your first family
whatever your challenges (an overprotective mom or an overly critical father-in-law) you have to outline together the boundaries between you & all of the families connected to you. not only will you feel stronger as a united front but when you stick to your shared rules, all that family baggage will weigh on you a lot less.

step 4: learn how to fight right
fighting right doesn't just mean not throwing produce, it means staying focused on the issue at hand & respecting each other's perspective. even if you fight a lot, when you can find a way to turn fights toward the positive (with a smile, a quick apology & an expression of appreciation for the other person) the storm blows away fast & that's what matters.

step 5: find a balance between time for two and time for you
when it comes to togetherness, every couple has its own unique sweet spot. with the right balance, neither partner feels slighted or smothered.

step 6: build a best friendship
happy couples are each other's haven, they can count on the other person to listen & try to meet their needs. when you're true friends, you acknowledge & respect what the other person is (you don't try to control or change them). this creates a sense of safety & security when you're together (you know you're valued for who you are & you see the value in your partner).

step 7: face down a major challenge together
all too often, the stress of a crisis can pull a couple apart. but the good news is, when you do make it through in one piece, you might just find yourselves tighter than ever.

source: redbookmag

surat meme

dari azwa

tag no less than 5 other people & leave them a comment, informing them that they have been tagged.

then copy the “How-to” Letter Meme & finish your Journal entry.

how you do the Letter Meme:

Dear (the last person who left a comment on your last blog/journal entry):

I don’t really know how to tell you this, but ___1___. I think I realized it ___2___ ___3___ and I saw you ___4___ ___5___. I’m sure you’re ___6___ enough to understand ___7___. I’m returning ___8___ to you, but I’ll keep ___9___ as a memory. You should also know that I ___10___ ___11___ .

___12___,

-Your name-

1. What’s the color of your shirt?

Blue - Our romance is over

Red - Our affair is over

White - I’ll join the monastery

Black - I dislike you

Green - Our horoscope doesn’t match

Grey - You’re a pervert

Yellow - I’m selling myself

Pink - Your nostrils are insulting

Brown - The mafia wants you

No shirt - You’re a loser

Other - I’m in love with your sister

2. Which is your birth month?

January - That night

February - Last year

March - When your dwarf bit me

April - When I tripped on sesame seeds

May - First of May

June - When you put cuffs on me

July - When I threw up

August - When I saw the shrunken head

September - When we skinny dipped

October - When I quoted Santa

November - When your dog ran amok

December - When I changed tennis shoes

3. Which food do you prefer?

Tacos - In your apartment

Pizza - In your camping car

Pasta - Outside of Chicago

Hamburgers - Under the bus

Salad - As you ate enchilada

Chicken - In your closet

Kebab - With Paris Hilton

Fish - In women’s clothing

Sandwiches - At the Hare Krishna graduation

Lasagna - At the mental hospital

Hot dog - Under a state of trance

None of the above - With George Bush and his wife

4. What’s the color of your socks?

Yellow - Hit on

Red - Insult

Black - Ignore

Blue - Knock out

Purple - Pour syrup on

White - Carve your initials into

Grey - Pull the clothes off

Brown - Put leeches on

Orange - Castrate

Pink - Pull the toupee off

Barefoot - Sit on

Other - Drive out

5. What’s the color of your underwear?

Black - My best friend

White - My father

Grey - Bill Clinton

Brown - My fart balloon

Purple - My mustard soufflé

Red - Donald Duck

Blue - My avocado plant

Yellow - My penpal in Ghana

Orange - My Kid Rock-collection

Pink - Manchester United’s goalkeeper

None - My John F. Kennedy-statue

Other - The crazy monk

6. What do you prefer to watch on TV?

Scrubs - Man

O.C. - Emotional

One Tree Hill - Open

Heroes - Frostbitten

Lost - HighHouse - Scared

Simpsons - Cowardly

The news - Mongolic

Idol - Masochistic

Family Guy - Senile

Top Model - Middle-class

None of the above - Ashamed

7. Your mood right now?

Happy - How awful I’ve felt

Sad - How boring you are

Bored - That Santa doesn’t exist

Angry - That your pimples are at the last stage

Depressed - That we’re cousins

Excited - That there is no solution to this

Nervous - The middle-east

Worried - That your Honda sucks

Apathetic - That I did a sex-change

Ashamed - That I’m allergic to your hamster

Cuddly - That I get turned on by garbage men

Overjoyous - That I’m open

Other - That Extreme Home Makeover sucks

8. What’s the color of your walls in your bedroom?

White - Your ring

Yellow - Your love letters

Red - Your Darth Vader-poster

Black - Your tame stone

Blue - The couch cushions

Green - The pictures from LA

Orange - Your false teeth

Brown - Your contact book

Grey - Our matching snoopy-bibs

Purple - Your old lottery coupons

Pink - How awful I’ve felt

Other - Your memories from the military service

9. The first letter of your first name?

A/B - Your photo

C/D - The oil stocks

E/F - Your neighbour Martin

G/H - My virginity

I/J - The results of your blood-sample

K/L - Your left ear

M/N - Your suicide note

O/P - My common sense

Q/R - Your mom

S/T - Your collection of butterflies

U/V - Your criminal record

W/X - David’s tricot outfits

Y/Z - Your grades from college

10. The last letter in your last name?

A/B - Always will remember

C/D - Never will forget

E/F - Always wanted to break

G/H - Never openly mocked

I/J - Always have felt dirty before

K/L - Will tell the authorities about

M/N - Told in my confession today about

O/P - Was interviewed by the Times about

Q/R - Told my psychiatrist about

S/T - Get sick when I think of

U/V - Always will try to forget

W/X - Am better off without

Y/Z - Never liked

11. What do you prefer to drink?

Water- Our friendship

Beer - Senility

Soft drink - A new life as a clone

Soda - The incarnation as an eskimo

Milk - The apartment building

Wine - Cocaine abuse

Cider - A passionate interest for mice

Juice - Oprah Winfrey imitations

Mineral water - Embarrassing rash

Hot chocolate - Eggplant-fetishism

Whisky - To ruin the second world war

Other - To hate the Boston Celtics

12. To which country would you prefer to go on a vacation?

Thailand - Warm regards

USA - Best regards

England - Good luck on your short-term leave from jail

Spain - Go and drown yourself

China - Disgusting regards

Germany - With ease

Japan - Go burn

Greece - Your everlasting enemy

Australia - Greetings to your frog Leonard

Egypt - Fuck off now

France - In pain

Other - Greetings to your freaky family

surat meme nyer berbunyi begini..

dear Aliza:

I don’t really know how to tell you this, but I’m selling myself. I think I realized it that night in your camping car & I saw you put leeches on my best friend. I’m sure you’re man enough to understand that extreme home makeover sucks. I’m returning the pictures from LA to you, but I’ll keep your collection of butterflies as a memory. You should also know that I told in my confession today about Eggplant-fetishism.

warm regards,

citrus_medica

p/s: nk tag kekaseh hati & fuad..

bebola ais

owh, bgn2 pg sekali salji da kat luar.

patut la sejuk giler mlm td nyer...

campsite penuh salji dh neh~

mase nk ke site pulaks td, jln semua dh hilang sbb abis kene selindung dgn salji.

x tau la mcm maner driver tu pusing2, tau2 dh sampai (walaupun agak lmbt dari biase & ader sekali tu rase mcm dh sesat. huhu...)

biler sampai kt site, amat lh lawa view nyer.

kawasan yg sblm neh gurun dh tukar salji-salju.

rase mcm nk guling2 je~

jenuh lh nk buat kije neh, abis semua equipment selindung dek salji...

org lain sibuk2 kije, buleh laks kami2 ini layan salji ;)

baru lh rase berbaloi pakai bj oversize & overweight neh.

hari neh kene blk awal sbb takut jln licin.

sblm blk campsite td, sempat la jugaks layan futsal ngan mamat2 uzbek.

main futsal pakai coverall & safety boots. damn, pancit!

p/s: kencing berasap dowh! hehehe...

kerinduan

wish u were here...

angkasawan

hari pertama aku jenguk site.

skrg neh tgh nk masuk musim sejuk, so kene pakai winter coverall.

sbb org2 sini bdn size xxxl, terpaksa lh aku sarung winter coverall yg oversize.

kasut + winter coverall nyer ader lh 5 kg.

mcm chipmunk pn ader jgk aku neh...

dari campsite ke site lebih kurang 30 minit, kene naik 4wd & ikut trek offroad.

mashyuk dowh trek & view dia~

uzbekistan drift?

bile sampey je kt site, ader h2s drill & aku kene jd osc (on-site commander).

br je sampey dh kene buat kije, damn!

kecoh2 la jgk awal2 nyer tu sbb ader yg xmo ikut arahan & nk buat keras kepala, huhuhu...

lps tu, setel2 kn ctu utk displace mud dgn water & sambung sampai esok.

mase blk ke campsite td, 4wd break-down lh pulaks.

nasib baik sikit je problem nyer, kalu x sure2 kene tggu 4wd lain dtg amik.

dh la gelap gulita, sejuk pulaks tu.

adeish...

sesampey je kt campsite, terus lahap xingat dunia.

lapar dowh!

karshi -> baysun

hari ni kene g inspect equipment sblm sambung perjlnn ker baysun.

grak dari hotel dlm kul 9, abis inspection dlm kul 12 & terus g baysun  sbb nk sampey site sblm gelap.

jom baysun jom~

p/s: tgh sarapan pg td, translator lmbt kasi tau yg sosej dlm pinggan kitorg tu ader campur dgn babi. nasib la aku lahap telur rebus & roti je. huhu..

tashkent -> karshi

lps mkn2 kt jamuan rmh en. hafez, grak g airport utk ke karshi.

blk hotel kemas2 brg, check-out then baru g airport.

kt airport, xbyk sgt problem sbb ader translator ikut sekali.

security screening cume satu je (sblm masuk departure hall), so xde la leceh sgt (xmcm kt pakistan, security screening sampey kt tangga flight).

beg2 dinasihatkn hand-carry shj, sbb kene tggu lama utk dptkn check-in luggage.

dari tashkent ke karshi naik twin-otter & masuk flight ikut pintu blkg. old s'cool giler dowh~

sampey2 karshi dh gelap dh, sbb musim sejuk mlm dia awal (dlm kul 530 dh gelap).

check-in hotel, g mkn mlm & terus g tdo.

kene bgn awal esok sbb nk g inspect equipment sblm g site.

dilarang membawa durian kedlm kawasan hotel atau anda akan ditembak. sekian, terime kaseh.

p/s: sponge bob versi rusia lawak dowh!

salam aidil adha

dari uzbekistan

owh, sambut jgk aku ry haji kt sini.

smyg ry xpg sbb bgn tdo lmbt ;)

satey kajang uzbekistan style..

jamuan pg tu ala-kadar je.

tp dpt jgk lh merasa satey, rendang & nasi himpit.

xde la kempunan kt site nanti.

serang!!!

abis mkn, kitorg lyn movie, main twister & main monopoly.

'org2 tua' nyer g jamuan kat kedutaan m'sia.

tp xsempat pn aku nk abis main monopoly, kene flight g karshi kul 5 ptg nyer tu...

aper2 pn, time kaseh lh kpd en. hafez, kak fad & mereka2 yg terlibat utk menyediakn mknn & sbb jemput aku dtg!!

p/s: salam aidil adha utk semua, maaf zahir & batin.

naik kapal terbang

by chantal kreviazuk

forever in love...

All my bags are packed

I'm ready to go

I'm standin here outside your door

I hate to wake you up to say goodbye

But the dawn is breaking

It's early morn

The taxis waiting

He's blowing his horn

Already I'm so lonesome

I could die

So kiss me and smile for me

Tell me that you'll wait for me

Hold me like you'll never let me go

Cause I'm leaving on a jet plane

Don't know when I'll be back again

Oh babe, I hate to go

There's so many times I've let you down

So many times I've played around

I tell you now, they don't mean a thing

Every place I go, I'll think of you

Every song I sing, I'll sing for you

When I come back, I'll bring your wedding ring

So kiss me and smile for me

Tell me that you'll wait for me

Hold me like you'll never let me go

Cause I'm leaving on a jet plane

Don't know when I'll be back again

Oh babe, I hate to go

Now the time has come to leave you

One more time

Let me kiss you

Then close your eyes

I'll be on my way

Dream about the days to come

When I won't have to leave alone

About the times, I won't have to say

Oh, kiss me and smile for me

Tell me that you'll wait for me

Hold me like you'll never let me go

Cause I'm leaving on a jet plane

Don't know when I'll be back again

Oh babe, I hate to go

But, I'm leaving on a jet plane

Don't know when I'll be back again

Oh babe, I hate to go...

kek cawan

dpt surprise kek cawan dari kekaseh hati, ader perasa limau & perasa coklat.

lazat wo~

syg, time kaseh eik kasi kek2 cawan neh~

pastu g lot-10 cari kasut, tp xde saiz la pulaks.

susah betul la kalu kaki saiz kecik neh.

hari sabtu neh kene g midvalley pulaks, sbb kat situ je ader size kasut yg aku nk.

blk dr lot-10, bwk kekaseh hati lelepak dgn shawn, nor, k, pzah & sha kt ayam dara tmn. melati.

konon2 nyer nk celebrate sha sblm dia g utp amik master & nk jumpe yus sbb dh lame xjumpe.

yus bz meeting mlm tu, so thn dpn je la jumpe cik yus neh.

kekecewaan lg mlm tu sbb ayam dara abis betul2 time aku & kekaseh hati sampai kat kedai tu.

mak cik kedai itu pn kureng friendly, minus point neh!

kene la g kedai sebelah utk rase ayam dara.

p/s: alamak, luper laks nk kongsi2 kek cawan ngan shawn, nor, k, pzah & sha neh. huhu...

senyuman bulan

hari neh keluar mkn dgn kekaseh hati kt mali's corner.

dlm kereta terperasan pulaks bulan senyum bahagia ;)

lahap2 mkn nasi lemak & ayam gureng sedap, sampai luper pelawa kekaseh hati kat sebelah.

sorry ye syg ;p

moral: lps2 neh, mkn kene blaja sharing2 & ingat2 org belakang!